Past Gas

AITOOW thinks that when people say "if I hadn't gone through what I have gone through, it never would have led me to you" what they are really saying is that "you are no where near my first choice". They are saying "if I hadn't degraded myself like I have (lowered my value in the marketplace), I would totally choose someone more worthy of me. But, since I am such a loser now, you are all I think I can get and you should be happy with my abasement, fellow loser".