I Got No (Self) Respect

AITOOW wonders which is the more pathetic getting dumped jingle - Selena Gomez's Come and Get It or Mylie Cyrus' Wrecking Ball? In one we see the Latin door mat mentality that basically boils love down to "I expect to get screwed over and I'm ok with that" and the other reveals an Anglo brat mentality that says "It was all my fault and now I'm going to throw a self descrutive tantrum until you are guilted into coming back". Who is the bigger loser? It's a hard one.