Mr Ice Guy

AITOOW knows that you can't tell a girl that you have no future together and maintain an exclusive relationship? A girl will only give herself (even if she agrees that this is just a fling) exclusively if she thinks it will reward her in some way. Not that she may EVER give herself exclusively to one man without some artificial tempering. She can't compartmentalize a unit of time. She thinks holistically or not at all. Time is all one to her or she really doesn't have the ability to conceptualize 'the future". If you think you have struck an agreement to be exclusive for a set period of time, you will be the only one agreeing (or the only one capable of agreeing) in good faith. You are better off just leading them on. It seem ungentlemanly, but, the rules must consider the opponent when there is no referee or penalty.