Eyes Versus I's

AITOOW notices that people who now think of themselves as "changed" think that everyone judges them on their "progress" not the totality of their lifes work. It's a point of disonance. What one feels about oneself versus how others feel about you. It can cause a lot of friction. The reverse is true if one screws up. Then they want you to remember the totality of impressions not this latest discrepancy.